I'm sorry to hear that. I can pick up more turns this weekend if you need me to do so.
Here's the current situation:

I guess my print screen key is finicky because I had tried to take a shot of the demos to show we moved up from 11th to 10th in soldier count on account of The Wheel.
The capital is a beast: It can slow build FWs at 3 turns or complete a settler at 5 turns. We very likely need a warrior or workboat to go scout east.
I started the settler in Kars, the chop should go into it next turn. We'll be able to whip it in 3. Two fast workers will be able to start improving the sheep next turn.
Turned on max tax, pottery is 4 turns at 100% research, so will be done in 5 turns.
Where do you want to settle for the 4th city? The fish spot north of the capital may not be awful right now, although it doesn't really claim much new land. It will be able to work the rice say when the capital starts working cottages. I feel like the horse/sheep spot to the west might be a reach, but I don't have too strong of an opinion.
Here's the current situation:
I guess my print screen key is finicky because I had tried to take a shot of the demos to show we moved up from 11th to 10th in soldier count on account of The Wheel.

The capital is a beast: It can slow build FWs at 3 turns or complete a settler at 5 turns. We very likely need a warrior or workboat to go scout east.
I started the settler in Kars, the chop should go into it next turn. We'll be able to whip it in 3. Two fast workers will be able to start improving the sheep next turn.
Turned on max tax, pottery is 4 turns at 100% research, so will be done in 5 turns.
Where do you want to settle for the 4th city? The fish spot north of the capital may not be awful right now, although it doesn't really claim much new land. It will be able to work the rice say when the capital starts working cottages. I feel like the horse/sheep spot to the west might be a reach, but I don't have too strong of an opinion.

The workers are aligned such that they can finish a mine for DBM when it grows to size 2 and meander over to road afterward.