Good Job!
The barbarians in your game were definitely bad. First the bears killing off your scouts and then the archers pillaging your territory. This definitely hampered your growth for a while. I have learned that having a sentinel net around your territory can be extremely helpful for getting rid of barbs.
I know that many people say that Creative is a weak trait and don't understand this. I think it is one of the strongest traits. When you don't have to waste turns building obelisks, early libraries, or stonehenge, then you can focus on expansion which is key.
I used to be in the exact predicament you were in, I never used to build enough military units. In Civ3, I would only build buildings, only ever having time to build up my army at the end game when all my cities had every building! Of course when I built the buildings so early, I had no use for them. I should have been building units and warring. I find that if you pick a very aggressive leader, and force yourself to build units for a couple of games (or play a custom world with all crazy leaders and agressive AI so you have to build units) then you can sometimes overcome not wanting to build a strong army.
Another solution is to play an SG - Then you know you have to build more units instead of buildings because if you don't the other players will
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you out.
Anyways, you did great for this being your first monarch game. And a very nice report too