Well ... I didn't received yet the save from
Nicolae but it becames clear for me now why the western border was quite for last turns.
A quite impressive stack of 2-moving Musketeers and not Knights but Cuirassiers

invaded my teritory and are in position to attack city of Garofita this turn - which is defended only by 2 pikemans, 1 longbow and 1 crossbowman.

Actuall he probably will choose to ocuppy it instead of razing it ...
So ... from my point of view this game is clearly lost/ended - it time for an analysis of my play ( and especially of my mistakes

).
For the moment I'd considered that I did some small, somehow reparable mistakes ( placement of cities was not always good, consumed first GA just to get Code Of Laws because maintenance cost started to hit hardly and so on ... ) but most important I did two really huge mistakes :
1. I was too much tempted to give to Jags a try ( never play with them against a human player ! ) and neglected the fact that - due to availability of Copper without roads ( just with BW and a mine ) - I could attempt a rush just with Spearmans & Axemans.

I still consider that
Nicolae was somehow lucky ( or actually Agg trait helped him ) to kill my "scouting spearman" just with warriors just before I could combine the axeman with it ... but this shows that I could had a good chance not to eliminate him from the game but to cripple seriously his expansion/development - a chance which I didn't exploit properly.
Anyway I can't be too angry to these Jags - they are pretty uselless in rushing a competent human player - but they did a good job in capturing barbarian cities on this map, providing sort of "easy to deploy defense" and even sucessfully harrassed
GingerEagle ( OK - he is not a comparable player with
Nicolae but I'd still give some credit to that pairs of jags which harrased him for the fact that my empire is much more extented on the East that in the West.

).