Here's your starting screenshot, taken in Bare Map Mode. The barbarian sign is just a randomized identifier for which start is which, but the tile it's on is the one where your units will start. Note the fog may or may not be reliable, depending on whether I make any further changes for balance or aesthetics nearby.
And your first set of choices:
Cassiel (Philosophical, Industrious, Adaptive) of the Grigori, with Mining OR Masonry
...or...
Rhoanna (Expansive, Financial) of the Hippus, with Animal Husbandry OR Calendar
...or...
Arendel Phaedra (Spiritual, Creative) of the Ljosalfar, with Cartography OR Fishing OR Hunting
...or ask to roll three different leaders and civs (up to twice).