Thanks Gaspar.
I've read all the threads now. Here are some things I want to say to the other players:
GES: I enjoyed working with you, and I'm sorry you felt betrayed by the galleon sale. We just draw the line at slightly different places. To me, deals with third parties are unrestricted by such an agreement except where explicitly stated, or if they're intentionally trying to damage the other.
Commodore: You're fun to chat with, and I thought you were a friend, though apparently you saw us as an enemy. It seems that seeing us so antagonistically prevented you from from realizing how much advantage you could have taken of our generosity. Something I'd work on for the future.
MNG: Your lack of communication, unwillingness to sign a NAP, and convenient location combined to make you our target. Sorry! I appreciate that you tried to fight us and deny us as much advantage as possible - that's how I'd hope someone who's been attacked to behave. However I think your methods of denial went over the RB line of good sportsmanship. Examples of this are your offer of all your income to Yuris, and sending your workers to Commodore. (I'd say that instead, you should have deleted your workers and spend all your gold on unit upgrades. Or you could have tried to bribe the other players to help you, of course.) It also seems that you tried to give Rheims to Commodore. That would not only have been terrible sportsmanship, but against rules you specifically and emphatically agreed to. Therefore I hope I'm wrong about this (and I hope yuris is wrong that you tried to give him 98gpt on purpose - a "misclick" does seem quite implausible to me though, and I hope I'm wrong that you were trying to give your workers to Commodore).
Yuris/Maestro: I wish we'd met you first and allied with you. You were totally honest and reliable. Unfortunately we'd already committed to working closely with GES, and it's pretty much impossible to make such close deals with two players and not have them come into conflict. Hence we made deals with you, but there was not much fundamentally underlying generosity and friendship, at least from our end. I don't think I ever tried to screw you, I did always offer what I thought were even deals (generally after offering an unfair deal first though, knowing how much you'd try to negotiate it down). Overall I still feel like you profited more from the total deals we made, than we did. Your unwillingness to ever do anything that put us ahead in the balance from our perspective did contribute to the non-closeness of our civs' relationships.
I've read all the threads now. Here are some things I want to say to the other players:
GES: I enjoyed working with you, and I'm sorry you felt betrayed by the galleon sale. We just draw the line at slightly different places. To me, deals with third parties are unrestricted by such an agreement except where explicitly stated, or if they're intentionally trying to damage the other.
Commodore: You're fun to chat with, and I thought you were a friend, though apparently you saw us as an enemy. It seems that seeing us so antagonistically prevented you from from realizing how much advantage you could have taken of our generosity. Something I'd work on for the future.
MNG: Your lack of communication, unwillingness to sign a NAP, and convenient location combined to make you our target. Sorry! I appreciate that you tried to fight us and deny us as much advantage as possible - that's how I'd hope someone who's been attacked to behave. However I think your methods of denial went over the RB line of good sportsmanship. Examples of this are your offer of all your income to Yuris, and sending your workers to Commodore. (I'd say that instead, you should have deleted your workers and spend all your gold on unit upgrades. Or you could have tried to bribe the other players to help you, of course.) It also seems that you tried to give Rheims to Commodore. That would not only have been terrible sportsmanship, but against rules you specifically and emphatically agreed to. Therefore I hope I'm wrong about this (and I hope yuris is wrong that you tried to give him 98gpt on purpose - a "misclick" does seem quite implausible to me though, and I hope I'm wrong that you were trying to give your workers to Commodore).
Yuris/Maestro: I wish we'd met you first and allied with you. You were totally honest and reliable. Unfortunately we'd already committed to working closely with GES, and it's pretty much impossible to make such close deals with two players and not have them come into conflict. Hence we made deals with you, but there was not much fundamentally underlying generosity and friendship, at least from our end. I don't think I ever tried to screw you, I did always offer what I thought were even deals (generally after offering an unfair deal first though, knowing how much you'd try to negotiate it down). Overall I still feel like you profited more from the total deals we made, than we did. Your unwillingness to ever do anything that put us ahead in the balance from our perspective did contribute to the non-closeness of our civs' relationships.