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Diplomacy Master Thread- Helping Your Opponents Beat Themselves

Back. Catching up.
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First things first, the easy one:

Draft to Apolyton Wrote:MZ,

For starters, you have our word that our War Chariot will not interfere with you in any way. So no worries!

We are also interested in extending the NAP. Do you guys have anything against a longer NAP? We were thinking even longer might be nice - maybe T185? Any thoughts on that?

Thanks,
scooter - Team RB

Any objections?

I'll move onto the CFC stuff in a few minutes. I'm caught up in the diplo discussion, just need to read the last couple turn reports and I'm caught up. My initial feeling is that 1) yes we need to call them on their underhandedness but 2) we don't need to go the nuclear route (figuratively speaking).
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For what it's worth, I like the second message, Option 6. It's short, to-the-point, and CFC might even take it as a compliment.
I agree that the old suggestion - Option 5 - was the worst of both worlds: inconvenient for them, but not actually harmful.

But I wonder if we're overreacting. I don't see that CFC violated their agreement. They weren't required to lend us the Marble as soon as it was hooked; and if they had offered it to us, and we had built the Taj instead, we would have mocked them mercilessly for their stupidity. Really, I don't think we could have reasonably expected them to do anything else. Of course, they're handing us the Marble now because it's a convenient time for them, without consulting us about it, but the problem is that we don't need the Marble for anything anymore. So we should just say that. (Yeah, so they didn't have to rub it in. That makes them jerks but we already knew that. The NAP still favours us.)

Anyway, I wouldn't send them the other message because I just don't see what "good-faith efforts" they could have made. We would never have given them Stone if we thought they were trying for the Hanging Gardens, or if we were racing them for the Pyramids. We both agreed not to target each others' wonders. In this case, there was only one wonder, so there was nothing to be done. I still think we might want to negotiate for alternate compensation, per Option 4, but I wouldn't call it "reparations." More like "thanks to you, we don't need that anymore. Got anything else?"
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Yeah, concur with Azoth. How exactly did CFC break or violate anything? The deal was marble for 10 turns at mutual convenience. Not marble to hand us Taj Mahal. That was our hidden subtext, not their responsibility. If we wrote the agreement with turn numbers that came out wrong for Taj, that's our own fault and problem. They outplayed us fair and square. Tip the hat and move on.

The only thing that's gone wrong is they're trying to offer it now instead of a time when we actually request or want it. So the proper answer is "not right now, but we still have call on it sometime later." Or even "well obviously we don't need marble now, can we renegotiate for something else?". That still has a higher expectation of getting us something useful than anything approximating "FU you arseholes".

Don't get hostile. Any posturing for moral ground is silly, nobody else in the game is going to care about who annoyed who first.
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Just drafted up something along the lines of option 4. Want to pause and address the Azoth + T-Hawk comments first.

I actually agree on one level. I don't think they really did anything under-handed at all. T-Hawk nailed it, there's nothing in that agreement that just guarantees us Taj. I don't think they owe us anything.

That said... I still think we should absolutely confront them. They did play that pretty slyly. They are certainly not our friends, and they will never do us a favor unless it seriously benefits them for the remainder of this game. This is perfectly rational of them IMO, I'd treat us and our dominant position the same if I was them. So let's call them on this and see what they do. I don't want them to think they can pull a stunt on us in the future and just get away with it. I want them to know we're a little pissed so that they're afraid to do something more blatant. If we just ignore this, we send the message that they can cut corners and "Sommer" their way out of stuff and get away with it. Maybe they ignore our demands, but the message is (carefully) delivered that they just pissed off their scariest neighbor, and they should not do that again if they wish to live.

That's communicating with them at their level. They seem to approach the game through a filter of "do whatever helps us win the best" which I think a lot of us can relate with, so let's treat them accordingly. Not every team fits this profile, but CFC appears to fit it perfectly. Ok, draft coming up in a few seconds.
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Ok. For CFC, I really like Option 4. Seven's draft along this line said this:

Quote:Hi Caledorn,

Your team acquired marble several turns ago and expended incredible effort to build the Taj Mahal before lending it to us, despite knowing that we wanted marble for this purpose. I am very disappointed, as I had high expectations of your integrity with regard to making a "good-faith effort to be accommodating on the timing of this loan". As a team, we have conflicted feelings about this, but I still have a lot of respect for your team and I would like to repair our trust. Please let me know if you are interested in making a real good-faith effort to maintain friendship between our teams, and we can talk more.

darrelljs, interim diplomat for team Realms Beyond

My only hesitation here is I don't really want to give them a chance to respond. I fear if we give them an opening, they'll gleefully play moralizing ping-pong with us, explaining how their effort was indeed "good faith" based on the Sommerswerd Code of Nonsense. I'd suggest we just tell them up-front what kind of reparation we want. My feeling is this: let's ask for 3 fast workers up front. Something like this:

Option 4 scooter's draft Wrote:Caledorn,

So I have to be honest here - we're a bit disappointed in you guys. You were able to connect the marble several turns ago, but you chose not to make a good-faith effort to give it to us so you could race us to Taj Mahal. Given the overflow you guys lined up for the Taj, that took a fair amount of planning, so I know it's safe to say you had the marble secured even before you settled on it quite a few turns ago. The lack of a "good-faith effort to be accommodating on the timing of this loan" is damaging to our relationship, to be very honest with you.

We do still have a lot of respect for your team, so we'd like to make an effort to repair trust. The swing in hammers/commerce from the Taj is fairly significant. If you're willing to pay some minor reparations (a one-time gift of 3 fast workers), we would be willing to drop this completely and move on. We believe this is a pretty minor cost compared to the enormous swing in hammers/commerce the Taj brings, so it's more of a symbolic reparation. If you're willing to agree to this, we will consider our relationship officially repaired and move on.

Thanks,
scooter - Team RB

Pre-emptive comments:

1) The 3 fast worker thing is effectively a placeholder. We can discuss what we want that "demand" to be, but let's discuss whether we want to send a message like this first before getting too heavily sidetracked on this part. I chose 3 because it takes 3 to move onto and chop a forest in 1T, so we have a wide range of the usual "FW tricks" at our disposal (better than just 2 which can only road in 1T)
2) "we do have a lot of respect for your team" - for the group of you that will immediately scream "no we don't!!!" - just keep on reading. wink
3) Same with the last sentence. I'm just interested in either A) Squeezing some freebies out of a possibly guilty conscience or B) making sure they know we are not pleased.

Ok. Tear this message up and tell me how much you hate it, I'M READY. lol
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Great to have you back, scooter!

I like the message. I think it's a bit wordy and I would aim to trim out some of the less important bits.
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Yeah it felt a little wordy to me. Definitely open to suggestions on cleaning it up if the overall message works well.
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Three workers sounds good, but allowing for haggling room means asking for say, four. Four sounds like a lot though, so I don't know.
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Message is good but verbose. Pare down and send.
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