Ok so no one signed a contract stating they will have their turn completed by the 24 hour cycle. We did however spend time determining a coordinated playing order and allocating times to play such that this would be achievable. Because of this I believe there is no reason why a turn shouldn't be completed per day. Yes things pop up in real life to upset this but rarely do we get explanations for why there is a delay and while I can't speak for everyone, this leaves me feeling like the offending player thinks their time and enjoyment is worth more than mine.
Every player who signed up for this game was looking for a challenging and fun experience competing against fellow Civ-lovers because of the enjoyment we get out of it. Obviously we get to experience this every time we play our turn. With that in mind I think every player needs to be a little more selfless and be aware that there are 5 other people involved in this game that want that same experience, and they miss out on this opportunity the moment you neglect completing your turn in time for them to play. We are part of a community and we have to be courteous to one another. If we want everyone to enjoy this than it really is that simple.
While we are on the subject of replacements I want to make it very clear that I have absolutely no intentions of giving up on this game. I never said I was going to quit, I'm a responsible person and I stick to my commitments. If Malakai chooses to leave us then he needs to be replaced, and at this stage I just don't know what level of spoiled-ness I would turn a blind eye to. The other side of the coin is finding a replacement for Strike, or rather a turn player.
Strike, please don't take my quarrel with you too personally, you are just in a shitty situation and unfortunately it's affecting everyone else playing this game. You have every right to play this game (as much as anybody else) so don't let anyone tell you otherwise, but at the same you have to realise how your slow pace is hurting everyone else. As far as I'm concerned you basically have two options:
a) you say "meh" and we continue playing slowly just how things are now at the detriment of the other players, or
b) we all happily organise a turn player for you until your circumstances improve.
Maybe I'm just overly biased but I can't see option b) being too harsh upon you. Already it potentially sounds like Twinkletoes can play your turns here, although I'm sure it wouldn't be too hard finding someone else if that weren't the case. At the very least can you please respond to this thread with your opinion because only through discussion are we going to be able to sort this hiccup out. Apologies for the length of this post.
Every player who signed up for this game was looking for a challenging and fun experience competing against fellow Civ-lovers because of the enjoyment we get out of it. Obviously we get to experience this every time we play our turn. With that in mind I think every player needs to be a little more selfless and be aware that there are 5 other people involved in this game that want that same experience, and they miss out on this opportunity the moment you neglect completing your turn in time for them to play. We are part of a community and we have to be courteous to one another. If we want everyone to enjoy this than it really is that simple.
While we are on the subject of replacements I want to make it very clear that I have absolutely no intentions of giving up on this game. I never said I was going to quit, I'm a responsible person and I stick to my commitments. If Malakai chooses to leave us then he needs to be replaced, and at this stage I just don't know what level of spoiled-ness I would turn a blind eye to. The other side of the coin is finding a replacement for Strike, or rather a turn player.
Strike, please don't take my quarrel with you too personally, you are just in a shitty situation and unfortunately it's affecting everyone else playing this game. You have every right to play this game (as much as anybody else) so don't let anyone tell you otherwise, but at the same you have to realise how your slow pace is hurting everyone else. As far as I'm concerned you basically have two options:
a) you say "meh" and we continue playing slowly just how things are now at the detriment of the other players, or
b) we all happily organise a turn player for you until your circumstances improve.
Maybe I'm just overly biased but I can't see option b) being too harsh upon you. Already it potentially sounds like Twinkletoes can play your turns here, although I'm sure it wouldn't be too hard finding someone else if that weren't the case. At the very least can you please respond to this thread with your opinion because only through discussion are we going to be able to sort this hiccup out. Apologies for the length of this post.